First, for the men out there, one should know the facts about your best friend.
After that bit of enlightment, I think you should read Juan Cole’s analysis of why the Sunnis will still play the role of angry mother in law. Its enlightening in what is says about the US’s ability to counter their discontent.
Finally for Bad Bob, the link you need to follow is here. It will save you time searching my archives.
Gotta run for now!